MORE PLAY
This month, I’ve seen lots of people working on blocks in self-expression. This is the single core root of insomnia, addiction habits, weight gain and being over-weight, relationship dramas. It is crucial that you share the vibrancy of the real you and get your gifts out.
Goshdarn, you’ve got to do what you love. What the world needs now is love, art, and magical experiences.
It’s relationship revitalising. Being yourself out loud means others you attract find that attractive! And shows you don’t NEED them to provide or coax it from you.
Also, it’s smart economics. Everyone’s drawn towards happiness and beauty, music, expressive input that uplifts them. The people not “in crisis” will want somewhere to expand (and spend time/money on) their happy feelings. So treat yourself to being that happy feeling, providing it and stabilising yourself! When you’re inclusive and generous to the well and well-off community, with more great wellness gifts… you surround yourself with this healthy diet of good outlook. And you come up with better ideas. to give out that spring your listeners into natural health.
We’re all attracted to what makes us feel great So if you want to be magnetically attractive AND stable in any arena, it’s your job forever to focus on generating your own joy within. Keep it simple – dance, play, colour, laugh, sing. Take the dogs for a run. Drum. Stick your tongue out and say ‘bleaerrrgh’.
When you’ve recently had or remembered joy, and got yourself comfortable being joyful, people are drawn to you like magic. Go do something adventurous that makes your heart cheer, and you’ll resonate that out for days to come. To everyone you encounter. Friends, family, work connections, day to day contacts. This can transform the way your world is panning out. You’re right to seek regular topups, and big powerful adventures.
Be aware for fears that show their protective face. Like with any messenger, you can listen to the message and be safe, but don’t need to join your fear in its emotion. YOU don’t need to feel it.
Put your actual hand on your heart and feel its voice. Listen to these real feelings, and don’t judge them. You don’t have to make a decision based on them yet.
Listen for your heart’s simple call and guidance. What do you feel, and what would you like to be feeling? What would that feel like? Remember, if it feels negative or contracting, then replace it with an instead. Always bring to mind an antidote. What would I like to feel instead.
What can you DO, now, that will put you into that feeling-space for an hour or two to get out of your thoughts and into that feeling? It’ll remind your subconscious mind what you are seeking, so it can help you get to more of that.
Feeling what you feel will lead to knowing what you want, and then, the paths to it show up. Now you’re more in tune with your intuition, what have you always wanted to do? How can you DO this thing you know you love doing?
Like the empowering kick of feeling fit that comes after the ordeal of pushing yourself in a workout, you’ll get the biggest buzz from completing and presenting to the world, the creative gem that you are most afraid of sharing. The one you’re shyest about. This is the one you’ve got to do. That’s how you know it’s that one. Biggest effort = biggest unimaginable rewards.
My clients are rocking this principle to great effect. People come in for anything from insomnia, frantic overwhelm from living parallel lives, debilitating consumption habits and ruts, untapped business potential, flat mojo, bored reliance on the humdrum for confidence. All caused by not being 100% themselves, their style, right here, all in.
One has begun a glorious-scale landscape artwork proposal which he’s already got support for, and unusual funding on the way. Another has redesigned herself after completing a love relationship and is now designing what she would like from life and a future love. Two more have both started ballet and choir singing, one is transforming her career to become an ergonomic product designer, one has completed years of accounts mess and hoarding, with 15 binbags of clutter binned, and a new system arising not only for his home but his business shape, which will make him a lot of money, and support more free time and space for love in his lifestyle.
All are clearing and rebeautifying their houses (your literal personal space). This is the place to start. All creativity requires clear uncluttered space at home (even drawers) and a calm mind and buoyant heart (that’s your call to fitness).
DOING that creative work, creating your product or giving the show, is a stress-immuniser. Get you out of your brain and into the hearty place of whimsy and play and pure feel.
Dare to pretend, and create in the world what was not there before you. You’ll open your imagination and problem-dissolver brain. This is medical hypnotherapy using reality rather than spoken suggestion. It resets the circuit of your brain that mops up stress and makes ‘sense’ of things.
A therapist can lead you out of a rut, but a better life uplift would be stylishly creating and crafting your own cheeky route, that inspires a whole new character development you can draw on everywhere for a lifewide elevation. Finding your WAY.
I give my clients exercises for conjuring new forms of looking at their situation, seeing possibilities, going exploring safely with thought-escapades. It’s often in a fill-in-the-gaps way with the hypnotherapist’s imaginative introductions, that arises from your own deeper mind. You’re the conscious audience to your creative mind’s likeable exhibition.
It’s time for having more play, more imaginative nonsense, interacting with experience. That is the essence of fun. When it’s all too serious, we need more nonsense. More laughter. It’s the immune system’s equivalent of drinking a glass of clean water.
My new thing is African Drumming. I imagine I’m snake charming with tigers. The strength of muscle and voice that it gives me, are making me a better hypnotherapist. More accessible and more commanding if I need it. How about you? You know what your own next joy step is. Now is your time for vibrance. Your play is also your creativity. Express your emotions and let the goods come out as you clear the clutter. Get your gifts out.
Now is your time to shine































